I know where you're coming from, give it time I'm sure it'll change and never judge yourself your a great mum and I'm sure your DD is more like you than you relise remember she's got 1/2 your genes too! As time goes on she'll do things and you'll relise that she takes after you too, I had a simular experience with my daughter and I still think she's more like my hubby but she's got me in her too!
Hope this helps you to feel better!
Snoopea