I don't really expect any answers, after all it's parenting so are there any??

I just hate that I'm probably not the best parent to have so much input into my eldest DD's life. yes I'm her mummy and I love her, and I'm the best mummy I can be to her, but she's SO like my husband. He is able to explain things to her and teach her things which I can't because we are just really different. Our brains work differently, really differently. I know she knows I love her, I know she loves me, I just kinda wish life was such that my DH was able to be around to input more into her life in areas of discipline and stuff. IE. I wish he was around from 3-7.30pm every weekday when the major disciplining issues ie. food, clothing, bathing, helping etc come up. Yes, don't we all wish for an angel at that time of day... The other weekend she had one of her little meltdowns that we seem to have every day and it was SO good for me to NOT be involved. To listen to the conversation(! ok, the screaming and trantrumming) from another room and able to take a step back and see where she was coming from. usually I'm the cause of the problem and right in the middle of it so can't do anything about it.

Anyway, it's just really frustrating and so annoying and upsetting. I love my DD, I want to help her, and I can't -- yeah, I know welcome to life but I still want it to be different you know?