My first 2 are 18 months apart....I absolutely loved the age difference yet they werent close as toddlers due to W having autism.

w was almost 5 when we had DD and as much as I loved the age gap there, I found kinder and school drop offs/pick ups hard. I was also going through a very difficult stage with W at the time which made havinga baby very hard.

My youngest 2 are 16 months apart....and im seeing the benefits of them growing up now as they ahve time apart from each other due to kinder as a positive.