well said Christy.
Outbackwoman, this post has created lots of great ideas for you to explore and trial, and I wish you all the best in your quest to keep DS safe and happy.
Your motives are well intentioned, that is clearly evident. What you do to your property is your business. Speak to CPS and KIDSAFE as well to get more information, as has been suggested.
Patience will see you through this situation hun