I get the feeling spence that you are implying that one women's choice directly implies that her belief is that all women should follow that path. The point you are missing and is quite obvious to me, is that in this community everyone does what is best for them and no one here has demonstrated to me that they believe that a choice should be taken away from another mother because it is not the same as theirs. I think trying to determine that one way is the only way is always going to cause problems.

Can I ask you this do you personally believe that home births are the wrong way to birth? And I don't want you to answer for other women or your wife, I want you to answer honestly what you believe.