When I was pregnant with Buster I swore he would be our last. DH and I were happy with two. A day or two after he was born I started thinking about another child, and now almost 4 months on I am most definitely not done! I would absolutely love to TTC a third child but DH doesn't want to, he's still content with two children. I'm envious of my friends who are quite sure they're done and have no desire for anymore - I remember feeling that confident with my choice and don't know if I ever will again. It doesn't help that Buster is the most easy going baby you'll ever meet

Oh yes and the pidgeon pair thing bothers me too. If I was blessed with another child I wouldn't necessarily be trying for a girl...with the amount of matchbox cars in our house I'd be better off with a third boy But the assumption that we would want a little girl more would irritate me!