Just keep doing what you are doing . You are doing a great job. This is the hardest part, but over the coming months it will become easier and easier. I remember being exactly where you are. I ended up cooking dinner in the middle of the day so that it was all organised before the unsettled hours arrived. I would wear DD in a carrier and take the boys to the park just before dinner, just to help us all get through. My DD was so hard to settle when she was tiny, it was really hard work. But luckily it doesn't stay that way forever .

My boys have had no long-term effects from the few months I needed to give DD lots and lots of extra attention. They quickly forgot what it was like and they are all happy kids.

Keep up the good work, you're doing fantastically