I can't really add to what my turn has said. Brilliant posts! I'll give examples though.

I don't like Minecraft and I don't like playing dolls. I played some games with them. But I try and find things to do with them that we both love. I know for me I wouldn't want DH to fake interest in something I love. Just as I wouldn't force him to come along to a craft night. He wouldn't expect me to play Borderlands. But he loves to cook with me. And I will happily do plenty of geek things with him. My point is find an alternative that you love. If you did NOTHING with your kids I'd be a little worried. But things change with different stages too. When DD was little the only way I could play barbies was to make them do silly things. She thought it was hilarious. Wasn't the way she played with her friends but she still enjoyed it. Now we do lots together. And DS and DH didn't play much when he was little. But now they spend lots of time together.

Try not to worry. And don't compare yourself to others. Being heard, loved and respected is most important IMO. And when I look at my kids I am certain that is true.