Wow, sorry to hear you feel judged, perhaps try not to judge and trash others in the process.

I would love for you to read back your original post and think about how you could have possibly made a whole lot of other mums feel pretty terrible.

I have learnt to own the decisions that we have made for our family, and realise that no 2 families are the same. I don't feel the need to explain myself if questioned about it.

Perhaps you could do the same.