Smug:

DD is kind, considerate and generally thoughtful of others
She loves playing the piano and is doing very well - even starting to make up her own tunes
She's curious about the world and loves learning
She's polite and well behaved, all our friends think she's a pleasure to have around

Crap:
She can be opinionated and a bit of a know it all
She has a short attention span and is easily distracted by other kids
She hates following instructions at the best of times