Things I will never say to my daughter...

[RockingBaker]

"I wish I had never had kids"
"I hope your kids are horrible just like you"
"You're doing x wrong"
"You need to stop babying them, they need to get tougher" (defending calling DD1 fat and DS stupid)
"He's never going to be normal, he will be retarded forever" (about my 3 year old son with autism)

Needless to say we very, very rarely see my mother.

[Charlotte91]

"I wish I had never had kids"
"I hope your kids are horrible just like you"
"You're doing x wrong"
"You need to stop babying them, they need to get tougher" (defending calling DD1 fat and DS stupid)
"He's never going to be normal, he will be retarded forever" (about my 3 year old son with autism)

Needless to say we very, very rarely see my mother.

Oh my God. That's terrible. I bet your kids are gorgeous.
xoxo

[<3 Mumofthreetobe <3]

"I wish I had never had kids"
"I hope your kids are horrible just like you"
"You're doing x wrong"
"You need to stop babying them, they need to get tougher" (defending calling DD1 fat and DS stupid)
"He's never going to be normal, he will be retarded forever" (about my 3 year old son with autism)

Needless to say we very, very rarely see my mother.

What awful things to say about her own grandchildren!!! That's shameful!

[RockingBaker]

My mum believes in tough love. That if I bully my kids they will become tough and bullies later on in life won't affect them. It's how she parents.
She has a real issue with having a grandson with disability and makes it clear that since I won't hit A for stimming or having meltdowns I am allowing him to be 'retarded' and encouraging him to be different.

At the end of the day I look at her and think, I never want to be like you.

[RhiChiChi]

^^ this is just horrible, what a nasty thing to say