Definatly not
I always thought i wanted a boy, and first time round i was dead set i was having a boy, and than when she was born and the midwife asked me what she was, i said a boy of course! and DH said ummm i think you might want to have another look and there she was.... My baby girl although i thought i wanted a boy i was so thrilled for a girl! and thought if i couldn't have any more bubs than i am happy with a girl, whereas if i had of had a boy first than i think things would of been different, im pretty sure i would of pinned for a girl.

2nd time round i think i only wanted a boy for DH's sake, and we didn't find out until the day she was born and i scored another girl i felt bad for DH but he has reassured me so many times that he is more than happy with his 2 girls and has no desire for a boy!

He even made comment the other day when he saw a dad with 3 girls he said i could really go for 3 girls so yep i guess that confirms it he is happy with the 2 girls!

I see soooo many benifits of having 2 the same (as im sure those who have a pigeon pair see so many benifits for that).

Not going to go for a 3rd because i like our family dynamics as it is, and having a boy would change that (not that i have anything against boys, i miss out on that mother and son bond) and im not guaranteed to have another girl.

Plus boys and girls are so different, and the little boys we know as cute as they are, make it even more definate in our heads that no we are not missing out by having 2 girls! your family is what you make it

we love it!