[QUOTE=peanutter;3004187]we'll go for it - and be happy with whatever comes out (unless it's a giraffe ... we don't want a giraffe ...)QUOTE]

Well said, Peanutter!

My number 1 priority is a healthy baby. As long as he/she is healthy that's the most important thing. Number 2 on the list is not feeling violated by the birth. Number 3 is bugger it, I want a girl LOL. DP and I have an agreement (until he changes his mind again) that if we have another boy, we may or may not try for a third. He says he really wants a daughter, and I support that because I always imagined myself as having a little girl. No matter the outcome though, 3 is my limit. That's a full sedan... hehe.

Did any of that make sense?