Beanybub, my ds already makes the brmm noises too haha! It applies to anything with wheels.
And definately know what you mean about the heart wanting another boy. I'd love two rough tumble mummas boys
I can understand, I felt a little like you when I found out at 20 weeks ds was a boy. I'm from a girl family, I was scared!
Let's just say I ADORE my boy.
Affectionate
Cuddly
Tells it how it is
He's loud
Loves music
Eats like a horse
And even calms me down in hairy situations sometimes "it's ok mummy, deep breaths"
He is my world. We have our issues, like at the mo, were about to move and we've been living in a hotel for a month, but I think the reason I get so upset when he behaves badly is just because I love him so much it hurts!
You will love your little boy, and I'm sure his sister will too
I love both my kids (girl then boy). I don't find there are too many differences between the two to be honest. I think environment often comes down to how specific to their gender they are iykwim. I know boys are very affectionate to their mummies just as little girls idolise their daddies. My son is very energetic but no more than some other girls that I know. TBH I think it's more of a second child thing than a gender thing.
The opportunities you have as a mother is awesome. And to me it's something I would look to moreso. In that you have the opportunity to raise a man who respects women, who is not afraid of emotion, who could be a good father, a good friend and a good son. You have the opportunity to break moulds and break stereotypes. This is what I think of when I raise both my children. I want my daughter to be strong. Not to feel that how short her dress is will relate directly to how positively she'll be treated. Just as I want to teach my son that whilst it is important for him to know how to beat his chest it is not all he is. Emotions are not weaknesses and his capabilities are not limited by his gender either.
Goodluck. Boys are awesome Just as are little girls xxx
I have 3 little men growing up in my house. My oldest is 9. I was so desperate for my first born to be a girl, cause my mother in law was so desperate for our first born to be a boy so he could carry on the family name
Even at 9, Kameron is the most caring kid. He sits with the special needs kids in his class to help them chill out, if I am in bed with a migraine or whatever he is coming in often to check on me to see if I need anything. On the other hand he also sometimes thinks he is the boss of the house, and tells his younger brothers off quite often for which we have to constantly pull him up on.
Lachlan is a few weeks away from turning 7, and you know he has a heart of gold but he is my one that throws the massive tantrums. thankfully most of them are at home. He is a very over emotional child and the instigator of many fights among the brothers. Having said that though he is the first one that comes running up to you for a hug, and on pick up from school most afternoons he will come bolting out of class with arms wide open ready for me to sweep him up.
Ashton is our baby and is 4. Everyone adores him and he knows it LOL. He is still in that Kissy and cuddly age, but becoming Mr. Independent as well. He is loud and yells alot, but then yells at everyone else to be quiet the next moment His favourite past time is singing songs while on the toilet. He loves getting out there and getting dirty and hates bath time.
All my boys fight together, play together and get in trouble together. Kameron is very protective of Ashton. Kameron and Ashton play well together, Lachlan and Ashton play well together, but Kameron and Lachlan rarely do. I think there is a slight personality clash there at times. Kameron and Ashton are very similar.
I was disappointed when I found out Ashton was going to be a boy, but got over it within a few days.
I am the little sister to two big brothers. Both were out of home by the time I was 11 with one of them going to live with my dad when I was 7, so I have never been really close to my oldest brother. As adults I don't have anything really to do with them. Their choosing for one, my choosing for the other as I have been walked over by him too many times.
I to was hoping for a girl when we fell pregnant. At my 16wk ultrasound when we found out it was a boy, I actually cried for a bit. I'm not sure why, I was happy everything was fine and he was healthy, but I felt a little disappointed all the same.
I've only just had our son, he's nearly 6 weeks now. What do I love about having a son?
Everything, he is so beautiful, so cute and so sweet. When I'm holding him and talking to him, he looks up and gives me big smiles. It makes me melt.
If this is the joy he is bringing now, I cant imagine the happiness that's yet to come.
When we found out we were expecting not 1 but 2 boys this time around I must admit it took me a while to get used to the idea. We were certain that we were having girls that to find out they were boys was dissappointing at the time. I really wanted DD to have a close sister to bond with as this is something I missed as my sister is 8 years older than me, but after looking at all the pro's & con's I must admit the idea of boys is growing on me.
I am now liking the fact that DD will always be our 1 special princess and she won't have to share that spotlight with anyone as the boys will always have there own bond together plus DD is such a daddy's girl that they will always have that special bond between them that the boys won't be able to break. I'm also looking forward to having 2 little mummy's boys to hug and snuggle, not the DD doesn't do that she does but it is on her terms only.
I also think because we live in the country our kids will be outdoors kids and DH can't wait until all 3 will be old enough to "help" in the garden and get messy, plus he will also be able to get out his trainsets and matchbox cars from when he was a kid (although DD would love that stuff as well).
I have two boys... One is nearly 2 and one is 4 weeks old... My sister has two boys 5 and 3.
Boys are ADORABLE. They are so much fun and so easy-going in their play. They are hilarious little men investigating everything, working out how things work.
My 22mth old is Daddy's little shadow... It melts my heart watching him copy Daddy's every move. I love watching him learn 'how to be a man'. But always comes back to Mummy for kisses and cuddles.
As the mother of boys we have an amaZing opportunity to raise the next generation of men as kind, compassionate, socially and environmentally conscious men who will treat the world with love and respect. The world needs more men like that!!!
Highly recommend reading Steve Biddulph's 'raising boy's
I have 2 boys and love them to bits. I am actually a bit scared at having a girl this time round. I am not disappointed, just not quite as excited as other people think I should be, if that makes sense.
Boys are so very simple. They play and make noise. They fight and then they are over it. They really do love cuddles. They don't seem to have the same manipulative side that I have seen in girls the same age. And from teaching teenagers I can tell you they are much simpler when they are older too! I think it is spending time with teenage girls that makes me anxious about having a girl of my own. lol.
when i was pg i wanted a little girl. one i could dress in pretty frilly dresses and put bows in her hair. at my 20 week scan we found out we were having a boy and i got excited thinking of all the things i could do with him
i can still dress him up but in jeans and little shirts, i love the boys clothes so much more then the girls, he is sooo cuddly and kisses me all the time. i love all the boys toys and love how he is a mini me of his daddy. if we do decide to have another baby then i would love to have another boy. just so i can get all those things all over again.
Boys don't just love their mummies, but their big sisters too. Just wait until his older, he'll annoy his big sis guaranteed but if anyone else does, watch out, he'll give them a protective what for!
I had a girl, then 3.5 years later a boy, then another boy 4 years after that. Now we're having a girl - I think this girl will be quite different to my first with big brothers!
Both my boys are loving and cuddly, as lots of others have said. My 15 month old continually comes up to me through the day and kisses me on the cheek or the big belly and cuddles me and says "aww". That being said, both can be rough and tumble, too, and they love a good wrestle together - natural testosterone-driven behaviour My first son is a lot more gentle in nature than his peers - we put this down to having a girly, level-headed bigger sister. He had a hard beginning of the year in prep last year, cause most of the boys in his class were either the oldest or had brothers and wanted to spend their lunch times kicking balls and getting rough with each other, but mine just wanted to sit and have a conversation and get to know them - more like a girl. Then he got it - he realised he can get to know them while playing and he doesn't need to do what his sister does and sit and talk the whole time - some of it is mimicry, I think. Now his teachers say he is really well-balanced -he has great social skills and great communication skills, but still interacts well with his peers and adults alike. And his best friend is still his sister - they play really well together, watch movies together, draw together - whatever they do they are happy to be together. And he is ultra protective over both her and I, being a big man around the house like he is at 6
Honestly, I know for some having one sex or the other can be really daunting, but as soon as you see him I'm sure you'll fall in love with your little man. They steal your heart
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Shazzi, I didn't love my little boy from when I found out I was pg, until he was a few days old. But I would have never given him up for anything. Now, I love him to bits. He, and his sister, are my favourite things in the world. He and his big sister (there is nearly two years between them), get along fantastically. The occasional dummy spit, but all children do that I think. They now sleep in the same room. If they both happen to sleep in the one bed, then later when we check on them, they are often holding hands.
I think maybe the thing I love the most about having a little boy, is that he is so cuddly. If I'm feeling down, or need some love, he is the biggest smoocher, and would let me cuddle him for hours. Speaking of which, he now wants me to feed him the rest of his dinner, so I had better go before it ends up on the floor.
I've also been told that boys are easier than girls....
ETA; I wasn't looking forward to my second pg because I had had such an awful time while pg with my first, and up until she was almost 18 months old. I had really really bad m/s for the whole pg, and then after she was born, she screamed literally all day and didn't sleep (reflux that I could find no remedy or relief for). So to me, the possibility of going through all that again, was almost too much to bear. My second pg was a little better, but still rates as awful. Then, after Rhino was born, we had all sorts of feeding issues. That didn't help my love. Anyway, that's the reasons for me.
Rouge; I just read your thread and hope to raise my two the same!
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I was chatting with a BB gal today and she mentioned this thread. Straight away I knew what I loved about having a special little boy to raise. My answer to your question .... I love that I will be raising a wonderful man because the world needs more of them. I feel in a strange way that my DS is such a wonderful contribution to the world and I am thankful that he has a fantastic dad to show him how to be an amazing man, husband, father etc. Raising DS to be a great man not only helps his own family and people that he will work with one day but it will also show other men in the community and his friends how to be a good man also. Not sure if all that makes any sense but I think that the more beautiful little boys that are born into wonderful homes the better the world will be for the men that come of it.
I love it that DS flirts with me. I love his sense of humour, his persistance, his determination. I love the man he is growing up to be. I love that he is caring and loving. I enjoy his company and that he thinks of me as a friend.
He just gets on with life rather than whinges about it. He has such a strong will and he is going to grow up and be amazing. (Plus I get to be the evil MiL! Yay!)
I love that he runs around all day yelling mumma mumma mumma then he will stop and run to me with his mouth wide open ready for the biggest, sloppiest kiss he can muster up. I love that when he climbs onto the wooden coffee table which we had to put away until he learnt how to get down, he looks so damm proud of himself. When he can climb on a chair and sit like a big boy. He has the cheekiest grin ive ever seen little biased lol I love that he still gets up at night to come into bed with us, he doesnt cry just says mumma or dada or sometimes bear (our dog). I love that he loves animals, i love that hes not scared of the chooks. Secretley i know that when he kicks or hits me, almost instantly he will give a kiss and hug after. I love that he puts his hand up to mine to hold and take me in the backyard when hes had enough of inside and if i pretend to not go he will grab both hands and pull as hard as he can. I love that when i sneeze he thinks its the funniest thing hes ever heard. But most of all i love him because hes my baby boy, hes always going to be my baby boy.
I always wanted a girl, and for that reason I found out the sex whle pregnant. I have struggled with my boy. I grew up with 3 sisters so no experiences with little boys, could not relate to them at all. I think I was gien a boy for a reason. He has taught me SO much about the opposite sex. He and I have had such an amazingly strong unbreakable bond since he was a few days old. He adores me, and is always asking me to straighten my hair and wear my dresses cause i am beautiful. When your son tells you how beautiful you are it just seems to mean so much.
He is SO cuddly, his fave thing to do is snuggle on the couch with me on saturday nights and watch a movie. Not an hour goes by when he doesnt tell me how much he loves me.
He tells it like it is, there is no beating about the bush.
Boys clothes are cute and you dont have to worry so much about the over sexualising with regards to clothes.
Toys are easy, if it has wheels or you can build with it, its a winner.If it has wheels AND you can build with it, they are busy for weeks!
If they need a wee in the middle of nowhere, they can just pee on a tree
DS is a big kisser. He even puckers up XP he likes to choose where he kisses you and holds your face in both his hands and rotates your face til he finds the best kissable spot, then carefully smooches you with this little smirk like he knows he's making you melt! Hes a real little suck hole!
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His favourite past time is singing songs while on the toilet. He loves getting out there and getting dirty and hates bath time. 
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