With regards to the start as you mean to go on I think thats something you learn after your first LOL! But my heart does break for little bubba's who have habits set up from birth and then they need to change out of convenience (which is fair enough) but it is tough on them and mum & dad too!

I haven't read the book, but from the reviews here I can't say its something I'd pick up.

*hugs*
Cailin