Also hated the term accidental parenting. I found the book interesting, but hard to implement. Just did not work for us and I feel in one way it made things worse for us, but I can see how it would work for others. After watching her on TV, I felt that is probably works well if you have her direct support. She seemed liked a lovely lady, pity she is no longer with us.

Ended up giving my books to the local MCHN to lend out.