That's ok! I hope you get some success. I forgot to say, if bub is crying, get away, have a cuppa, do some deep breathing, read something, listen to some soothing musack in your ipod - so that when you go in to comfort your bub they will respond to your calmness (this is why the nurses at the sleep clinic as so good at settling, they know to go to their calm space before they pick the baby up LOL). And make some special time to play together and share your physical affection so that DS is getting lots of love & physical contact during the day.