brendalisa she is lucky to have a friend that is concerned for her, I second pinky mckay's books, and really recommend breastfeeding, rocking and holding bubbas to sleep, co-sleeping and boobing back to sleep and perhaps putting bubba in a sling for sleep. so an example of my schedule at that age would be, cluster breastfeeds, baby is usually unsettle in the early evening, then oscar would fall asleep in my arms, hold him (or DH held him) until we go to bed, breastfeed again whenever he woke up. then go to bed, we co-sleep, breastfeed whenever he wakes up, i never look at clocks/time as to when he woke or feed, sleep as much as possible and if feeling tired in the morning i would get my older off to school and then go back to bed with oscar and sleep a couple more hours. thats was pretty much our sleep schedule. i pretty much held oscar or he was in a sling or co-sleeping at that age probably 23 hours out of 24.
good luck
beckles