i know what astrid is trying to say. i know from experience that it is VERY hard to make your baby follow a routine. i think the best advice to her would be to go with the flow and sure read some of those books, listen to some advice but ultimately you have to do what suits your baby..... and it will get better! *i know that is a frustrating phrase but its true* my DD is 5 months and still doesn't fit into any routine, she is all over the place.