I don't have a problem with babies crying, sometimes no matter what you do, they will cry... but what I WAS concerned at, is the 90% thing, which is why I posted. I haven't put down anyone or accused anyone here. I think it's important to clarify these things, as if someone came and read it and thought, well maybe my baby is just protesting 90% of the time, maybe I should comfort him much less etc. On the internet people tend to self-diagnose, in moments of weakness be easily influenced and take stuff on desperate for answers, and I feel a sense of responsibility for making sure things are clarified and explained as best possible to avoid distressing problems.