We have been through it too, it gets better but dd still has moments where she goes backwards if she isn't kept busy or stimulated but it's also when she was tired. For about 6 months we couldn't let her out of our sight as she would destroy the house. Now she can be left to go outside or up to her room. She has had her brother home lately as his daycare was flooded in the beginning she loved having him around but it's meant she has had no one on one time with me so the last few days she has refused to listen, wrecked her play dough and just screamed to get my attention.