Yep my Moo was 4 in August and as a result he has lost his hearing He will not do anything the first dozen times I ask him and it really frustrates me. He gets lost when I ask him to do something, such as pack up his toys, I'll find him doing something else instead. He won't undress himself because he 'can't'. He 'can't' do lots of things at the moment! I think he just wants me to do for him like I do for his little brother. He has just started copying what I say to Buster, like just now I told him to get down so Moo gets in his face and repeats it, can see this getting old very quickly!