Thank you!!
I really appreciate your response - and I think you're right, a meeting to discuss is probably a good logical step!!
Our chat the other week was chaotic - in that my son and my DD (she's 1.5 yr old) were pulling on me to get out of the kindy and go to park, so I wasn't able to have a proper chat with her.

And I hadn't even thought about the 'developing resilience', that's a huge consideration.
thank you for your words!