i really dont know what to say but *big hugs n kisses* as this must be a hard thing to have to decide n handle also...
i TOTALLY agree with JAYNE.. it is such a beautiful thought n suggestion n i think that is such a lovely sentiment to ur ianto n for the bubs coming...
its hsows everyone that u r keeping his memory alive n also celebrating this ones beginning iykwim??
gl hun wat ever u decide... xoxo