Oh girls I know that his response is normal. Although I am now wondering if I am being selfish. I mean, if he truely believes that this baby would be such a burden do I have blinkers on ?? I know only too well how hard little people can be. Tehya stil wakes up nearly everynight. And Noah still won't wipe his own bum !!

Am I doing the wrong thing by sticking up for this little baby. It's all too bloody hard and confusing