Awwww Hugs Trish. Don't doubt your self, stay strong in what you believe in & Mark will come round. Tracy & Tanya make great points & I know you yourself know how best to handle the situation because you know Mark best.

Ya know what, Glenn still wakes at night & EVan wont wipe his own arse yet either! Isla was very much planned but it doesn't make it any easier. Like you said this makes 5 for you but your older boys can help out etc. Mark just needs to get his head around it all & pointing inthe right direction.

It will work out.