Hi Trish

Sorry I am so slow and wasn't told until today!!!

First of all, congruatlions, and I hope the bleeding eases and you have nothing further to worry about.

Secondly, I remember reading a while back that you said we didn't want to know what Mark said he wanted if you got pg again when it was a hypothetical - so I'm not surprised you were nervous about telling him or that his response doesn't qualify him for husband of the year...

You're a strong woman, hun, and I'm sure you can talk Mark around. Maybe after it's all sunk in and he's had time to get used to the idea he'll be more positive.

If it makes you feel any better, my DP said the other day that the one thing that helped him with our surprise package was my absolute determination that we were having a baby, no negotiation or alternative, and it was up to him to decide what he wanted to do with that. And he definitely came around!!