Hello belly buddies,

Am new here and hoping someone can help making a decision...
1st pregancy and so far so good and hubby and I are ecstatic as we have been trying for just under a year now and we finally got lucky.
However, that's a sidetrack from my issue.
Back in Feb this year, I was asked to be a bridesmaid for our best friend's wedding next Valentine's day. I of couse said yes and we both knew that there would be a high chance that I would be pregnant for the wedding, what we did not plan was this.

My due date is Feb 1st... so you can all understand the problems I am facing.
Will I even be able to be at the wedding? I mean, Feb 1st is the EARLIEST due date, I have a feeling it will be more like 4th or 5th as my cycles have been a bit irregular and more along the 31 days than the 28's....

As it is my first bub, I've got no idea as to how my body is going to change ( so the dress is a fun challenge too) but more so, with breastfeeding etc, am I dreaming to think that I might be able to just have the baby close by with a member of family and perhaps do the backs and forth for feeding or extract some milk the week before?

I don't want to go back onto my word and would looooooooove to be all part of it, but I'd rather say something now ( I'm in week 7 and she is aware I am pregnant, as I had to tell her because of dress measurements as dress is being made overseas) if everyone tells me I am kidding myself that I will even want to be out of the house and not sleeping...

Help???

Thanks

Sydney Moose