Thanks so much everyone for your advice and replies, before this I just thought I was overreacting and being paranoid about the baby.

Things went downhill very fast yesterday, my partner has gone away with the car, and the nearest a & E to me is an hour and a half away. I bloated up really large and the pain was very bad under my ribs as well as down there and I was so dizzy I could hardly see. I thought for sure that this time another rupture had happened and I was going into shock like what happened 2 years ago, but I have no family, noone to watch my young kids and getting an ambulance was just not a possibility (what would have I done with the kids?) I don't know anyone well enough in the area to trust them with my kids and all my family lives in another state.

So I prayed and paced for three hours. It eventually settled down to the point I could sit down and bend my body and late last night the bloating started receeding. I think it was another large bleed as Im very sore inside everywhere today, like I'm all bruised in there.

I'm going along to my GP this morning and depending on that if I can't get a referral from him to an OB I am going to go to a completely different surgery and see another doctor. I got the name of a great OB in the area from another parent at the school that's pregnant (the only one I've told knowing she's had experience with it) and she really recommended this person and told me of another really good local GP to go to.

So that side of things is looking up. I've lived here for 2 years, but due to my previous marriage I have a lot of problems with socializing with anyone...I've now realized what a bad thing that is when you have no family in the area and have problems like this.

Thankyou so much for all your advice and basically validation of my feelings, I would feel crazy by now if I hadn't read your replies.

Hopefully there will be better news to tell this week.