i lost a clot this morning only one no pain bleeding not heavier, i had my mum look at the bleeding she reckons if i am mc its bugger all, i just dont know why this is happening maybe its something to do with blood vessels and maybe my vaginal septum i have i dont know whats going on not in pain or anything, i think i am grasping at straws its hard to believe its happening i thought they would be able to pick this stuff up on u/s, my whole family is shocked my mother is extremly angry just at the internal being done she reckons they should of waited if they couldnt see much wait a few weeks then do internal, but i just feel like im sitting in limbo
I am so sorry you are going through this difficult time. I am amazed they did a vaginal scan and declared you 3 - 4 weeks pregnant as at that stage the embryo would have barely implanted - perhaps what you are experiencing is an implantation bleed?
I know it is difficult but the best (only) thing to do right now is rest and try not to worry. At this early stage if the pregnancy is ending there is no way to save it so wait a few weeks and perhaps get some blood tests done to test your HCG levels?
I have been exactly where you are and know how heartbreaking it can be. Hugs to you
yes it was amazing seeing what is the start of our baby, but its looking like a mc, they took we are it was negitive
took bloods and on monday have to have more taken to see if hcg levels have risen or fallen, its so unfair, the hospital looked at me so stupidly, even thou i was told by doctor surgery to go their and be checked out! i feel like a mess about everything specially going to the hospital cause i am only 3 to 4 weeks pregnant, but i had to have an anti d shot and made them give me one i dont want to ruin not concieving again, as my last baby was o+ and being negitive blood my body can kill off any pregnancy if bloods mix up and stuff.
my family have been great, my partner was making me laugh in hospital, and i know this sounds silly but toey as all hell for some really silly reason, so i got laughed at.
i hope my little angel is still their but if not i hope he or she is will be bought back to me in my next pregnancy, you just cant help but fall in love with the little beans and thinking about all the what if's. i think its something that will never go away.
thankyou for all the support, i will let you know what happens for certain, but one thing is the doc i had been seeing never did hcg level count so never going back to him he was never my baby doctor only saw him cause reception wouldnt fit me in.
thankyou all xxx
hi thought i would update bleeding has lightened up! i was never bleeding heavy anyway, but i dont know if this is good or bad.
i know this might be TMI but the only clots i have lost so far were ones big as a full stop and only one that was as big as a 50 cent piece. still like no cramping had twinges but nothing to make me cripple over.
i dont know what a mc is supposed to be like at 3 to 4 weeks pregnant, i still dont think things are looking good cause on a digital test which i have used for the first time it came up not pregnant, hospital told me to check hcg levels with hpt's to see if i get a reading, but the sticks from the digital have 2 lines both blue but one line is lighter but very much their.
sigh i am so trying not to get hopes up that little one survived this, i have never soaked a pad yet never filled one to compactity or anything its like i have a my normal period, i wish i could take my mind off this but its hard not to, can anyone explain more what is supposed to happen when you mc, and if a mc is doing its job or not, i dont want to end up with a d & c last time i did they ripped my cervix and ended up with a stitch or two put in, i prefer to have this whole situation happen naturally if mc is taking place
I am a little confused what you mean when you say 3 - 4 weeks pregnant? Do your mean your last period was 3 - 4 weeks ago, or that you ovulated 3 - 4 weeks ago?
If you ovulated 3 weeks ago you would be about 5 or 6 weeks pregnant, and a miscarriage at this stage would be like a heavy period (usually, assuming that everything happens naturally). If your last period was 3 - 4 weeks ago then I suspect a miscarriage would be like a normal period.
Rest up, and I hope you get some firm answers soon
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