oh and one more thing nd i know this seems very silly, but very toey atm hahaha. after everything you would think i wouldnt want to but people have told me i cant do anything of the sort! but does it really make a difference its not like down there is sore or i am sore i feel real good to do so and no doc or nurse has said not to. and its not fair i feel like stamping my feet because my dh wont give in until tomorrow when see doc and get all clear to do so!