I was always offended when my close friends announced their pregnancies at 12weeks to me, when they knew I was going through round after round of IVF.
It felt like they had been lying to me for 12weeks, I always took it so personally!!
If situations were reversed, and they were a close friend that I always spoke to, I'd tell in private one on one, before I announced it to other people so they had time to process the news.... And before the 12week mark x
I kind of understand it but for most people 12 weeks is the "safe" period. Iv had miscarriages and now wouldnt tell anyone except my oh and care givers until probably even futher than 12 weeks. Iv got alot of issues though. Its a hard situation.
Tbh no matter how i find out people are pregnant it still hurts but i see every pregnancy as a blessing.
Much love to all you lovely ladies TTC its a hard journey xxx