Oh Em! i am sorry that you had to go through that. I would also find that really confronting. I know that this is a vulnerable time for you, but remember that this is your body, your baby and you can say no, you can say, i would prefer some privacy etc. i know that it is really hard, because as you said they do this everyday; unfortunately it is always up to the parents to insist on being treated well which is a shame

BUT! on to much happier news...you are growing a beautiful healthy bubba!!! so so happy for you!!!!