Thankyou so much for your replies girls.

It makes me feel better to know that other people have experieneced the same problem with the midwives.
I think the same as most of you have said " breast is best" but if there's no milk that's not always the case.
At the end of the day your bub needs to be feed and weather that be by breast or bottle ,I don't feel it is anyone else's place to make judgement of you. Every parent wants whats best for there baby.

Take care and thanks again for your support. Leah