Hi,

I am worried that this isn't just an "adjustment" issue. From what you have described it is simply a bad perception by your partner of what a partnership is. Why are you making his lunch as well as cooking, cleaning etc etc.

I don't have children yet, but am the eldest of a big family and i know one thing already - if you dont have help form your partner your child raising will be so much harder and your relationship will most likely consist of many more of the arguments/frustrations that you have already expressed.

You cant and dont have to be everything...he can make his own lunch for starters. There are no excuses for your partner because within 8 months he will be a dad and that is not something that the tv can block out