I avoided coffee until a couple of weeks ago. My reason for that though was that I was completely addicted to it and didn't want to risk getting stuck into it again if I had one. I replaced my coffee addiction with chocolate and it hasn't done me or bubs any harm. I didn't drink any cola drinks at all but did have a few cups of tea a day.

I wouldn't worry about the dessert at all. It's fine.

I would avoid the entree altogether, but it sounds like that's what you are going to do anyway. If there are salads being served with the parma ensure that there's no dressing on them that contains egg white, or if you think that will give the game away just don't eat them.