Pains??

**Mummy_2_Tyrone** · March 28th, 2008, 10:59 PM

Can anyone help me out.. With my 1st pg my relationship with my partner ended as soon as we discovered the pg so I'm not sure if this is normal.
sorry for the tmi, but, after me and my df dtd i get sharp pains in my lower stomach, they dont last that long and are not so bad if I lie down. Does anyone know what could be causing this?
its worrying me a bit, and well i'm not sure if its normal coz as i said earlier I never dtd with my 1st pg..
hope im making sense

**[M]umma[M]ia** · March 29th, 2008, 09:10 AM

aww hun..theres nothing to worry about as long as u have have no bad cramping and theres no blood.
I rang my midwife when i began having these sharp pains, she told me that it the baby and as the baby slowly grows through out the day it starts pushing on your other organs. Also ur uterus it starting to stretch. Try a heat pack to ease the pains

This is my personal opinion, if it gets too worrying please see ur doc!!

**Rumpleteaser** · March 29th, 2008, 10:05 AM

Don't worry about the cramping after DTD. It happened to me also but seems to pass after a few weeks. I think it has to do with stretching of the uterus and the contractions of an orgasm while the little bean is in there. Some ppl are worried about DTD after getting a BFP, but I have also heard that an orgasm can help the baby implant naice a tight.

**Netanya** · March 29th, 2008, 06:04 PM

Hi - I have just found out that Iam pregnant too

I am also having some bizarre pains. Quite mild but there..if u know what i mean. I get so nervous each time I go to the toilet just in case its bad news...so far so good. Hang in there. From everything I have read so far it is quite normal. Good luck