very upset...but is there any hope?

[Elocin]

You are not a failure Em... As BD said above, something's just not quite right - it's not YOU though babe.

Your DH is a good man, who just wants to see you smile that beautiful smile of yours. He just wants to make you happy and look after you.

I hope you find some answers soon, are you able to call your doctor again maybe to see if there is anything he can do?

Look after yourself

[Eenee]

thanks everyone...still in limbo, and still spotting (TMI) but no red blood just brown. I haven't got any cramping or anything.
I must have had a stressful nights sleep cos DH told me I was yelling out "where's my baby" i just cried when he told me. The Dr won't do anything until next week. so just more waiting!

[Eng]

oh em

You know that if its brown then its old blood.. So Im praying that your baby is sticking..

I think you need to see a different doctor.. I also think you should demand blood tests..

Em as hard as it is.. You really need to try and relax. If you can relax it will help your baby.. Have a cool bath and think positive thoughts hunni..

[Diamond Girl]

I cant even imagine what youre going through, but I just wanted to give you a .

Brown blood is old blood, so hopefully youre out of trouble. I dont know if it will help you, but many of us have had bleeding in early pg and gone on to have beautiful healthy babies. If you need answers now then go and see a Obstetrician, he will give you an u/s on the spot and it may help to calm you down. Please dont think its your fault because it isnt.

I wish you all the best.

[Cassius2]

You and your bubba are still in my thoughts babe

DHs like to 'fix' things and make us feel better, we love them because of that, but it is your time to feel sad and you DO NOT have to cheer up/smile/put up a front. you are going through a major time in your life. Maybe just tell him that you need to feel sad right now, but that you love him dearly and his cuddles are wonderful...i think they feel at a loss at what to say or do ITMS.

huge hugs for you babe

[Eenee]

My Dad is coming to visit me tomorrow, Mum wanted to also but couldn't because of work. It's over a 4hr drive so it's nice knowing that Dad loves me that much and wants to support me by coming to visit. Will be nice too cause Dh is working tomorrow- so at least I'm not home alone.

I said something to Dh tonight can't remember what exactly but he replied 'it hurts me too' It was just what I needed to hear because Dh is not an overly emotional person so to say that was very big. And I needed to hear it because I kept thinking why am I the only one upset by this? I guess he just has other ways to deal with it.

[mummy2chloe]

Hey hun,
i just wanted to say that i am thinking of you and your DH, its so heartbreaking
if i can do anything please let me know.

its so sweet that your dad is coming to be with you, having support and to feel loved when your going through something like this is just what you need.

we are here for you and your hubby hun

thinking of you xxx

[Jahzara]

em....

Thinking of you and your DH

I really hope you get some answers soon !

What a wonderful Dad you have

xoxo