Our thoughts on finding out seem to have changed with the number of pg's we've had. With the 1st pg we thought that we'd find out but tell everyone that we didn't know as everyone was saying 'oh you're not going to find out the sex are you?!'. 2nd pg we thought we'd find out and tell only a few people. This time I'm finding that after losing our other babies I don't actually care what people think of us finding out the sex. I want to know as much about this baby as possible and I'm not going to worry about trying to hide what gender the baby is from other people if we do get to find out.