I didn't find out with my first two. Not that I didn't want to, they just couldn't see. I found out at around 17 weeks with Noah that he was a boy and I found out at 19 weeks that this babe is a girl. I really needed to know with Noah and I'm sure that it helped me to accept that I was having another boy as I desperately wanted a girl. This time around I wanted to know but it was not a need. I truely thought that I was having a boy so we were pleasently surprised when it turned out to be a girl. This will give me plenty of time to buy all things girly

Take care
Trish