Hi Ms Lee,

I couldn't wait to find out with my 1st, if they could've also shown me exactly what she'd look like and what sort of personality she'd have I would've found all that out too! I was so excited and couldn't bear the thought of having no idea what 'it' was inside me and for some reason found it easier to bond with her after I found out. Why not find out as much as you can?

IMO having a your own amazing baby finally in your arms is more than enough of a surprise for me.

This time I plan to find out also, but more bc dh is really hoping for a boy (he has 2 dds atm)