I thought I wanted to know - my scan was yesterday. But I told the songrapher no, and after that, no amount of persuading would get him to change his mind - he even tried the "I haven't actually had a closer look" - yeah right!
But the point is, now that I know I can't find out, I'm completely OK with it,a nd kinda happy I didn't find out. I dont think it will be less of a surprise, but it will be nice finding out on the big day!
I reckon go with what feels right - and I'm pleased now I dont know.
Fi