I am preggers with my first and because of my age - 36 - I say to people that it'll most likely be the last. I've had a few funny looks but I couldnt care less. Thing is I'd like two, but I just cant see it being that easy at my age. I'm also at a delicate point in my career and I'm not sure how long I want to take off. But I am sooo close to my sister and brother and those relationships are the most important ones I have. That tempts me to give a sibling to the bub inside - but then, not all sibs are close and in fact none of my friends are as close with theirs as I am with mine. So, I guess I dont know.

I agree with the girls at the top of this thread - tell everyone to buggar off! None of their buisness!