I think another thing for me is that the first time around i didn't have to worry about anyone else, it was just DP, me and tummy. This time I think about DD all the time, how will she feel, what happens if we're stuck in this unit, will she be able to sleep, will she be jealous etc etc. I think the excitement has been lost in all the worry (most unecessary Im sure). Not to mention, last time I could sleep when I wanted, lounge around, even working full time was great, but that's not possible with another one. Just when I want a rest, DD needs dinner or wants to play etc.