Thanks everyone, it's good to know I'm not the only one who feels like this. I am also having trouble imagining how I could love another child as much as I love DD. Although I am trying to look at it the way Dr Phil says - you have like a separate account of love for each person and when the new baby comes a new account will be opened and it will not take anything away from DD. I think this is the best way for me to think of it.

I'm getting more excited as my scan date approaches (2 weeks) and now that my tablets are helping my m/s a bit I can think about it a bit more and when I see a baby on TV I think, "OMG I'm going to have another one of those georgous little things again", so I think it will come with time.

I just find that #2 is sooooo different to being pg with #1. I know what your're saying that first time round it was just you, DH and the bump and you didn't have to worry about anyone else but now, no matter how crappy you feel if DD is hungry or dirty and there is no-one else, you have to do it even if you feel like you're going to die!!

Thanks everyone.

H&K's
Jorja