i too am worried about my emotions and how they can affect bub.... presently going through an terrible time with DH.. suspected cheating and his resentment towards me being pg.. just at a loss as to how to make myself not so anxious... am seeing counsellers and social workers, but at the end of the day its all up to me and my feelings... both my boys are and were so calm and content with the world right from birth cant help but to think this one will be highly strung..