We have a name that we agreed on when I was only about 3 months pregnant but it'll be a surprise! We were really lucky after being told we would need IVF for me to get pregnant due to a pituitary tumor and would probably not carry to term and we got preggers on the first month of trying and have had a really smooth pregnancy.

Don't be scared of giving birth. Sure it'll hurt but it's a productive pain and the toughest part usually is only at most ½ a day, sometimes a couple of hours. It's not like the pain from a broken leg which doesn't give you anything positive at the end of it. Every contraction, no matter how sucky will get you one step closer to baby!