Do you have other friends who have had kids???

DP didnt want to go to classes and neither did I so we chose not to do them.

Instead DP spoke to a few mates who had had children and were there for the birth and told him what to expect how he could be supportive, what not to do, etc.

Do you think your DF could do that?

to you both. You guys are going to be fine. Just concentrate on your precious miracle that you will get to hold and snuggle and kiss and fall in love with like you have never loved before! Its amazing!!