Apparently in about 7 months I will be a qualified midwife - yikes!
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Hi girls,
Ros - sweety, You are fully entitled to feel devasted and dissapointed at finding out about this bub possibly being a boy. I know how much you want to experience a little girl. Dr D is right hun, you need to grieve for what will not be, don't underestimate that.
Don't forget babe, not only are you dealing with the dissapointment, but you are also dealing with the overload of hormones that are going on as well. I am sending you loads of
Ella - I totally agree - do not stress at all about feeling nothing! I had absolutely none with Campbell or even Cooper for that matter, but this one has been a whole different kettle of fish! Tightenings all of the time over the last week! Just lap it up love and enjoy the good run you are having!!! DH's are so funny with what they come out with when they get used to the idea of being a Dad! How wonderful that he is asking those questions though! Goodluck with your Calmbirth course, I am sure you will love it! My backup Doula is now a Calmbirth practitioner as well and she absolutely loves it!
Mel - HUn, you are the best! I am taking all of the labour vibes I can muster hun.
Well I went to see Dr D and asked him to do an internal, and I am really glad I did. I am 2-3cm dilated and my cervix is well applied, and he pushed the baby's head to show me where he was (ouch!lol) so basically my body is ready to roll as soon as it decides! I am really glad I asked him to do it, cause now I am feeling a bit more positive about hanging on to go naturally.
Well that is about it from me! Hope everyone else is having a great day!
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