wow i dont blame you for being stressed!! The other girls have had some great advice, I dont really have anything I can say that hasn't been said already but i wish you the best of luck with this and if DP isnt going to budge on current situations with people coming over etc just make the best of it, I know its a horrible situation and one you dont want to be in but you also dont want to be not talking to DP just before your baby is born.